Saturday, November 28, 2009

The Bayport - Blue Point Parent Support Group


The Bayport - Blue Point Parent Support Group has been gathering together for three years.

They meet once a month at the Bayport - Blue Point High School Library.

They discuss educational, behavioral and social topics concerning our children.

They discuss current trends in disciplining.

They discuss topics related to children with special needs.

They discuss how to effectively advocate for our children's educational support.

They have professionals in the area of education visit and talk with us.

They have a behavior specialist, speech pathologists and a special education teacher attending most of the meetings.

They share stories about their kids.

They share information on how to help our children.

They share information on how to help ourselves to be better parents.

They are a place where you can come and talk about your child.

For more info: They will be meeting at 7pm on December 21st, January 25th, February 22nd, March 22nd, April 19th, May 24th and June 21st.

Monday, October 26, 2009

Du the boo! South Shore Halloween Duathlon in Blue Point


There is still time to Du The Boo on Halloween morning - in costume or not. The Bayport - Blue Point Chamber of Commerce is holding an USAT sanctioned du-athlon at 8am on Saturday, October 31st starting at Corey Beach in Blue Point. Entry fee is $55 and part of it is going to local charities that The Chamber supports. There will be prizes for the top three males and top three females winners.

What is a du-athlon? Well it is like a tri-athlon, but no swimming. There will be a 2 mile run, followed by a 14 mile bike ride and ending with a 2 mile run. The racers start off at Corey Beach and follow the scenic route of Middle Road through Blue Point and Bayport, then looping around to finish back at Corey Beach.

Get your registration in today to Du The Boo! If you are not that athletic, at least go down to Middle Road on Halloween morning and cheer on the racers - many who will be running in costumes.

For more information:

Call 631-419-6677

Registration Form

Saturday, October 17, 2009

Trick or Treat Trail in Bayport


Halloween is almost here and kids love to wear their costumes any chance they get. For the next three weekends The Girl Scouts of Suffolk County are doing their Halloween Trick or Treat Trail at Camp Edey in Bayport. It is for boys and girls ages 4 to 10. There will be a bunch of Halloween activities for the kids to do, along with a Fun Maze, games and treats at each station. Every hour there is a costume pageant, so make sure the kids are wearing their Halloween best. They will have other refreshments available and a coupon for popcorn online.

Cost is $10 per child - adults are free. The Trick or Treat Trail goes on rain or shine.

The Trail is from 10am - 3pm on the following days -

Saturday, October 17th

Saturday, October 24th

Saturday, October 25th

Saturday, October 31st

For more information -

Camp Edey

1500 Lakeview Avenue

Bayport, NY 11705

631-472-1625

GirlScouts@GSSC.US

Thursday, October 15, 2009

It's A Boy - With Baked Clams!


The Fish Store in Bayport had a baby boy on October 2, 2009. Well actually the owners did - Seth and Danielle Needleman. To celebrate their new addition, Riley Caleb, The Fish Store is giving away four homemade clams oreganato (uncooked). Yummy!

Stop into The Fish Store, see the latest photos of Riley and get your free clams. Offer expires on October 31, 2009.

The Fish Store

836 Montauk Highway

Bayport, NY 11705

631-472-3018

TheFishStoreOnline.Com

MrMako77@Aol.Com

Whisky Ed Says - Holiday Wine Extravaganza


Whiskey Ed says "Don't drink the water" - so you must drink the wine. Houdek's Spirit Shoppe in Bayport is having their annual Holiday Wine Extravaganza on Tuesday, November 10th from 7-10 pm at Blue Restaurant at 7 Montauk Highway in Blue Point. Tickets are $50 per person, which includes the tasting of over 100 wines, food and raffles.

Enjoy a great night with some friends and wine. Don't worry November 10th is not a school night because the next day is Veteran's Day, so indulge. But, make sure to arrange to have someone pick you up.

Tickets will be available for purchase at Houdek's until November 7th or when they sell out - whatever comes first. You must purchase tickets in advance because no tickets will be sold at the door. When you go to Houdek's make sure to sign up for their email list at the cash register and any other local store you frequent. This Examiner can tell you there are specials that will only be emailed to you - it's worth it.

Houdek's Spirit Shoppe

844 Montauk Highway

Bayport, NY 11705

Mike Houdek 631-472-1300

Mike@Houdeks.Com

Just a few of the wines that will be poured the night of the extravaganza -

Von Schlienitz Riesling
La Crema Russian River Chardonnay
Mount Eden Cabernet Sauvignon
Dutton Goldfield Pinot Noir
Carmel Road Pinot Noir
Hartford Zinfandel
Mionetto Sergio Prosecco
Clos De Los Siete
Cloudy Bay Sauvignon Blanc
Chandon Pinot Noir
Casa LaPostolle Cabernet
Trimbach Riesling Reserve
Rosenblum Petite Sirah
Newton Cabernet
Rosenblum Syrah
Carr Cabernet
Joseph Drouhin LaForet Bourgogne
Santa Ema Reserve Merlot
Zaccagnini Montepulciano Reserva
Oyster Bay Sauvignon Blanc
Yalumba Shiraz
Yalumba Chardonnay
Los Vascos Cabernet
Pillar Box
Marietta Old Vine Red
Ludwig Knoll Sylvaner
Domaine Drouhin Pinot Noir
Paul Cheneau Brut
Joseph Phelps Insignia
Grahams 10yr Tawny Port
Darby & Joan Chardonnay
Darby & Joan Cabernet
Marquis Philips Sara's Blend
Strong Arms Shiraz
Bitch Bubbly
Bitch Grenache
Permutations Pinot Noir
Mark West Pinot Noir
Guenoc Petite Sirah
Toad Hollow Chardonnay
Cesari Amarone
Mommy's Time Out Pinot Grigio
Harlow Ridge Cabernet
Simple Peche
Chateau Magence Graves Blanc

Saturday, October 10, 2009

Kidsday is calling all artists!


Give a child anything and they will make artwork out of it. Like yogurt on a table with a spoon! Looking for something easy, quick, fun and free to do with your kids this long Columbus Day weekend? Release for their inner Picasso with Kidsday.

Kidsday is the section of Newsday that is dedicated to children. It's a fun little column that has been around for 31 years. Kidsday illustrates their column with drawings it gathers from the children of Long Island in their annual art contest.

It does not matter how old you are or what your skill level is - they want all kids ages 16 and younger to enter. Children compete within their own age group. There are seven categories for the theme of your child's drawing - Animals, Cartoons, Computer Assisted, Getting Along, Music, Portraits and Sports. The winner of each category will be featured in the Sunday, December 27th issue of Newsday. Even if you don't win, there is still a chance that your artwork will be in a future edition of Kidsday throughout the year. And there is a chance to win a Kidsday T-shirt.

Create a masterpiece for Kidsday! The deadline is Friday, October 23, 2009.

Here are the rules -

* Kids through age 16 may enter.

* Entries must be postmarked by Friday, October 23rd. Each drawing must include your name, age, address, phone number, T-shirt size and category.

* Drawings must be done in a black felt tipped pen or ink. You can color in your drawings.

* Enter as many categories and drawings as you like, but make sure to label each one with your info and category.

* Make your drawings on white, unlined 8 1/2 by 11 inch paper. No drawings larger then this will be accepted.

* All drawings must be original - no copying of any kind is accepted.

* In each category, prizes of Kidsday T-shirts will be awarded in these four age groups - 0 to age 6, ages 7 to 9, ages 10 to 12, ages 13 to 16.

* Artwork will not be returned.

Mail drawings to -

Kidsday Art Contest

Kidsday Newsday

235 Pinelawn Road

Melville, NY 11747-4250

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Your recipe of the day from King Kullen


What's for dinner tonight? That is the question that weighs heavy on your mind all day long. It loams over you like a black cloud. In most families, dinner is the is the most hectic time of the day. Everyone is tired from long hours at work or school and everyone is starving. You want to prepare a quick, delicious and nutritious meal that everyone will love. That may just be a fantasy, but you can get ideas for dinner everyday delivered to your in box from King Kullen when you sign up for their recipe of the day.

Go to the King Kullen web site and click on the green tab at the top "Weekly Specials". This page has a bunch of useful links to their weekly circular, recipe database, shopping lists and the button you want - sign up for savings and more. Here is where you create an account and select what information you want emailed to you, only on the days you pick. So you choose if you want a recipe delivered to your email every morning or just on Tuesdays. The recipes are easy and use products you can buy in King Kullen.

Always check out the web sites of stores you frequent a lot - local and national. There is useful information on these sites, especially when you sign up for their newsletters. They often will email you special coupons and let you know about deals before it is publicized in other places.

King Kullen in Blue Point is located at 29 Montauk Highway 631-363-9899.

Sand, not pumpkins - Long Island fall family activities


Fall is here and everyone loves to go pumpkin picking, jump on a hayride and run through a corn maze with the family. But on Long Island, one of the best things to do in the fall is to go to the beach.

Sitting on the ocean is not what first comes to mind with the crisp fall weather. This time of year may just be the best because the beaches are not hot, crowded and noisy. You will get to soak up the beautiful scenic views of the ocean in peace and quiet. The ocean is actually the warmest in the fall. It takes all summer for it to slowly heat up. So go and frolic in the waves.

It is best to dress in layers, especially for the kids. Your first layer should be your bathing suit. A bathing suit in October? Trust me - this Examiner has had her kids in bathing suits on the beach in the fall. With the warm ocean breezes and sun, it may get that warm. Plus, with very few beach neighbors, your kids will be doing lots of running and exploring without getting sand on someone else's blanket. Don't forget the sand toys for the kids. They will enjoy digging on an empty beach.

The other plus to enjoying Long Island's beaches in the fall, is you may not have to pay for parking. It depends on what ocean beach you visit. My fellow Frugal Examiner will like this. Smith Point in Mastic Beach is a county park and they do not charge for parking after Labor Day. It also has a boardwalk nature trail through the dunes, which is the perfect for a hike. There is no charge for the trail and your kids talk to the park rangers on duty.

Lots of town beaches that have restricted parking during the summer, have no parking rules in the fall. There will not be any lifeguards, so just splash around in the waves by the shore. Other beaches, like Robert Moses still charge $8 to park all year long, but that is a bargain afternoon out with the family. And a lot less stressful then getting stuck for hours in pumpkin traffic out east. Make some different fall memories this year and head off to the beach.

Monday, October 5, 2009

Boulevard of death? Bayport's Middle Road Traffic Forum

Last night was the second Middle Road Traffic Forum held at The Academy Street Gym. I did not attend, but the Suffolk County Department of Public Works' Chief Engineer was to present his finding and solutions to help ease the problem of speeding and reckless driving on Middle Road in Bayport.

This summer if you drove on Middle Road or the boulevard of death, as one WCBS TV reporter referred to it, you would have noticed the large police presence to catch speeders and slow down reckless drivers. This was all due to the the Traffic Forum, that held their first meeting in the spring. Although, the below information is from their first meeting, it is still interesting and worth reading if you live in Bayport.

For more information email BayportSafety@OptOnline.Net

Suffolk County News

Jim Morgo

Bayport Car Crash Stats

The Bayport Safety Committee

The Bayport Safety Committee on June 16th held a well publicized, highly attended, robust community forum on traffic safety issues at the Academy Street Elementary School. The Committee also surveyed hundreds of Bayport residents on the quality of life issues related to vehicular speeding and reckless driving that affect our neighborhood. All viewpoints and related actual experiences on the topic were encouraged to be expressed. No opinions were neglected, it was an interesting evening.

The main focus of our concern has to deal with the historic heart of our community, Middle Road. This beautiful collection of 19th and early 20th century houses should be made into a "National Historic Registry District". It must not continue to be despoiled by the out of control vehicular speeding problem. The 30 m.p.h. posted speed limit is adhered to by less than 10% of the motorists who traverse this road, many of whom are our neighbors. Speeds of 50 to 65 m.p.h. are the norm. If a pedestrian is struck by a car doing 30 m.p.h., that individuals statistical chance of survival is 20%. Lower that to zero if the vehicle is a high-front van, SUV or landscaping truck. Thus safety for our families, friends and pets is our paramount issue. This is a topic on which there can be no logical disagreement. Where the trouble occurs is how to address the speeding problem--stoplights, stop signs, speed bumps, chicanes, rumble strips, police speed traps, better engineering or just good old fashioned responsible driving? That is the problem we face. We have analyzed our survey data, listened to forum participants and are now prepared to offer some remedies.

We are not traffic engineers or behavioral psychologists. Our proposal is not infallible, but reflects a prevailing majority respondent input. We are solely "concerned neighbors" who want to see a "common sense" solution to this traffic issue that will benefit all our residents. What once was a pleasant, bucolic, winding road has become at times a fearful, dangerous annoyance for responsible drivers and pedestrians. Excessive speeding, tailgating and illegal passing have become the norm not the exception on this stretch of road. It has become the "A-27-A By-Pass" for those wishing to avoid the traffic lights and congestion on Montauk Highway. The problems have been exacerbated by the increased traffic volume and lack of speed impediments on this 2-1/2 mile Middle Road/Gillette Avenue to Montauk Highway route.

Traffic calming encompasses what are called the 4 E's--Engineering, Enforcement, Education and Encouragement. Working off these categories we would like to offer our "street smart" recommendations for action:

ENGINEERING
Starting on the west end of Bayport by "Meadow Croft" and the "Loughlin Vineyard":

** Many people recreationally fish, bike, jog or walk on this natural stretch. Some type of engineered speed impediment should be incorporated into the roadbed by Brown's River to discourage vehicles from going over 30 m.p.h., thereby protecting these individuals.

** Following this open stretch there should be an attractive "Welcome to Historic Bayport" carved wood sign with "Speed limit strictly enforced" engraved underneath. An identical sign should be placed on Middle Road just east of Gillette Avenue.

** The next section of Middle Road from the first houses at Baywood Lane/Crestview Drive to Suydam Lane needs mitigation to slow the flow--this is a problem--McConnell Avenue is the most logical place for a stop sign, it is a dangerous curve, however the street does not align well for signage. Our committee could not agree on another stop sign location.

** All our other stop sign proposed placements correspond with pedestrian crosswalks at busy, important neighborhood locations. Edgewater Avenue--a 3 way stop sign (Bayport Commons and a school crossing), Snedecor Avenue--a 4 way stop sign (Methodist Church, Tiny Tots Nursery and a school crossing), Bayport Avenue--a 3 way stop sign and overhead red flasher (old downtown, and dangerous curve), Gillette Avenue--a 4 way stop sign and overhead red flasher (important recreational crossing and dangerous curve).

** We feel the sidewalk gaps on the south side of Middle Road need to be remedied. This is a "pedestrian" school district without busing. Unfortunately these gaps make foot or bike transit dangerous for our children, a situation that even in this tough fiscal climate needs to be addressed. The existing contiguous sidewalks on the north side of Middle Road also need routine maintenance (i.e. pruning and crack repair). Our pedestrian crosswalks need clear delineation with more durable paint, not decals and where appropriate "right of way" road cones.

** Trying to make a turn on Montauk Highway is a motorist nightmare. We feel the south turn signal at Gillette Avenue serves a very beneficial purpose. We would additionally add one east bound at the same location so drivers could turn north onto Gillette with ease and confidence. At Montauk Highway and Bayport Avenue we would add both north and south turn light signals. At Snedecor Avenue a south turn light should be installed eastbound. The same signal should be placed at McConnell Avenue. These additional turning lights would diffuse the traffic that now gravitates to the southbound Gillette Avenue signal for safety reasons. These measures would lessen the traffic burden on both Gillette and Middle Road.

** The Town of Islip program that planted 58 new trees curbside on Bayport Avenue should be expanded to as many other streets as is fiscally possible. Visually they help slow traffic.

ENFORCEMENT
** We cannot expect to always have police on demand when conditions cry out. The proposed stop signs would reduce the need for speed patrols. However, the reckless drivers who disobey our school crossing guards while also running stop signs and speeding still need to be ticketed. We would ask for police resources to be deployed during the school year from 7:15 to 9:00 a.m. and 2:15 to 6:30 p.m. Some people need $100 speeding tickets and penalty points on their licenses to get the message.

** Increased DWI patrol on weekend nights.

** One of the biggest speed culprits is the S-40 Bus that uses Blue Point Avenue and Middle Road as an "alternate route". Ridership on this diverted route leg appears to be minimal. It should be kept solely up on Montauk Highway instead of our narrow residential roads.

EDUCATION
** Our teen-age students are the next generation of motorists. Offer a mandatory driver education program at the High School, as well as a refresher defensive driver course for older folks.

ENCOURAGEMENT
** Develop a public safety program for our schools as well as residents. This is a wonderful area we are fortunate enough to reside in, why not a campaign touting "Drive at 25" and enjoy the scenery. Life is short enough--this is often forgotten when speeding to a child sports event or stressful job. There is something to be said for the slogan--"Stop and smell the roses".

CONCLUSION

The Bayport Safety Committee has been formed to make the community aware that there is a serious quality of life problem that taints our enjoyment of the wonderful benefits of living here--traffic anarchy. Many neighbors through the years have perished in horrible accidents. It is not "if" there will be another tragic case of a poor resident being killed or maimed but "when". It could be a member of your family, a close friend or a neighbor on the next block. We have the power to fight this inevitability. The "status quo" is not acceptable. No more road mayhem, let's slow things down.

NOW IS THE TIME TO ACT------NOT ANOTHER 20 OR THIRTY YEARS FROM TODAY!

Bayport Safety will walk the streets this summer to enlist more support. We welcome all the help we can garner. We will petition our present as well as potential future political leaders to help achieve our goals. Come September we will hold a second community forum and possibly a fundraiser. We already have promised donations for our "Welcome to Historic Bayport" sign proposal as well as the "public awareness" campaign. We have struck a responsive chord amongst the citizenry. We are also exploring the possibility of turning the responsibility for Middle Road from the County to the Town of Islip. It is easier to fix a neighborhood problem at the grass-root level. The responsiveness of the individuals sitting as well as aspiring to be members of the Islip Town Council at our forum was heartening. We look forward to a better, safer future.

Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs in Sayville


It did rain this past weekend, but not meatballs. When it's raining outside, that is a great time to take the kids to the movies. And one of the best kept secret is Sayville Cinemas - just off Main Street in Sayville. Most moms of school aged children know about Sayville Cinemas, but if you have younger kids or even if you don't have kids, it's a great and cheap place to see a movie.

Sayville Cinemas ticket price everyday, including weekends and holidays, before 6pm is $5 per ticket - for adults and kids. And all day and night on Tuesdays it is $5 a ticket, they call it Bargain Tuesday. If you miss the $5 time slots, regular priced movie tickets are $7 for adults and $6 for children. Still a great deal! Going to those new fancy movie theaters with 16 screens will cost you a fortune. Stay local in Sayville.

Sayville Cinemas has not changed much over the years. You get a hometown, Mom and Pop feeling when you go there. They have four screens, lots of parking and all the same first rate movies as the big chain movie houses. Their treats are very reasonable too. A large popcorn is $4.75 and a box of candy is $2.75 - you cannot find these prices at other movie theaters.

And now for the movie we saw at Sayville Cinemas - "Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs". It was a great movie and the kids really enjoyed it. And it is a movie that adults will like watching too. This movie is rated PG, but this Examiner did not feel there was anything in the movie that was inappropriate for kids. In our group there were children ages 3 to 6. If you have read the book "Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs" as a kid or to your kids - the only thing that is the same as the movie is food falling from the sky. So even though the book is different from the movie, both are entertaining for your children.

Sayville Cinemas, 103 Railroad Avenue, Sayville, NY 631-589-0232

SayvilleCinemas.Com

Advance purchase of tickets available in person and online

Birthday parties and gift certificates

For more info on cheap things on Long Island - check out Keeping it Frugal.

Friday, September 18, 2009

Deep Discounts at Bayport Flower Houses


Everyone loves a sale! Starting tomorrow - Saturday, September 19th to Monday, September 28th at Bayport Flower Houses it's their Tent Sale. Sometimes when you go to a sale, it's really not that good. But trust me - this is one sale you do not want to miss.

All the items in the tent are truly "On Sale" for 75% to 90% off - plants, pottery, giftware, garden art, tools and more. A few years back I purchased wooden window boxes that were originally $75 each for $20 each. I also got a huge, beautiful wicker hanging basket for $3. Bargains, Bargains, Bargains!

Bayport Flower Houses has been in Bayport for over 75 years and is really a family run business. Even if you don't buy anything, they do not mind you wandering around their grounds and greenhouses to get inspiration.

Bring the kids too, they will have fun because Bayport Flowers is very kid friendly. On their grounds next to the Annual House, is a wooden playhouse that your kids love to play in. Your children will also enjoy looking at the flowers and throwing coins into their many fountains, to make a wish. The Flower Houses even hold classes for children called - Saturday for Super Kids.

All of the staff at Bayport Flowers are friendly and helpful. When you are there sign up for their newsletter , which is also online. In it are coupons, class schedules and all sort of other helpful tips. They accept their coupons if you print them from their online newsletter. Bayport Flower Houses is a beautiful place.

Bayport Flower Houses

940 Montauk Highway

Bayport, NY 11705

631-472-0014

BayportFlowers.Com

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Go High In Sayville And Fly A Kite


Have you always planned on taking your children out on a windy day to fly a kite, but never did? Here's your chance. On Saturday, September 19th from 10am-4pm, it's the 2nd Annual Kite Festival at the Long Island Maritime Museum in West Sayville. Kids age 5 and under are free, for everyone else admission is $2. That's a deal!

We went last year and it is truly a very nice event. The kids talked about it all year long and are very excited to go again. You must, must, must buy the kite making kit when you first get there. The kite kits are $5 each. As cheap and cheesy as these kites look - buy one for each kid. They are really plastic garbage bags made into a kite, but they fly like no other. These kites also are long lasting because we still have ours. The kids get to decorate their kite with magic markers and the big decision is what color to make their kite tail. If you already have a kite, you can bring it too.

Then take your kite out onto the humongous, tree free and windy lawn at The Long Island Maritime Museum right on The Great South Bay and fly! Your children will have a blast flying their own kite that they just made. Plan on staying for awhile because the kids will not get bored. Last year there was a DJ playing kite flying music, there was a snack stand with picnic tables and you can also wander through the museum exhibitions. Professional kite flyers were on hand too and danced their huge colorful kites in the wind. All these things will be at this year's festival too.

Some suggestions - bring a blanket or beach chair to be comfortable watching the kites, pack a snack and drinks (if you do not want to spend extra money at the snack stand) and take your camera. Let's go fly a kite!

Long Island Maritime Museum, 84 West Avenue, West Sayville, NY 11796, 631-HISTORY LIMaritime.Org

Saturday, September 12, 2009

It's Grandparent's Day In The Bayport Bubble!


Grandparent's Day - who invented that holiday? Actually it was not The Hallmark Card Company, although they probably profit from it. It was Marian McQuade and she wanted to a way to remember the elderly in nursing homes. In 1978 President Jimmy Carter proclaimed the first Sunday after Labor Day would be Grandparent's Day. This year it is celebrated on Sunday, September 13th.

You do not have spend a fortune on Grandparent's Day. What do all Grandparents want? They want to spend time with their Grandkids - that will make them the happiest. And with all these other holidays that we go overboard on, keeping this one low key will make it extra special.

Long distance Grandparents would love a phone call or an email note to say hi. Why not post on your Grandpa's Facebook page "I Love You!". Send a card - homemade cards are extra special. For young kids just take a piece of paper out of the printer, give them a crayon and make a card. Grandparents will treasure this.

For Grandparents that live around the corner - go by with bagels and homemade cards. Go for walk by The Bay with them. Invite them over for dinner. Just spend some extra special time with them, they will cherish it.

If you or your children no longer have Grandparents, you can still celebrate the day. Do something nice for an older neighbor - bake cookies and pick her some flowers. Or spend some time remembering a Grandparent that has passed away by bringing out the family photo album. Children love looking at old pictures and hearing old family stories. It's a nice way to remember them.

We celebrate Grandparents Day in our house by inviting all Grandparents and Great Grandparents over for an early dinner. Our traditional Grandparent's Day dinner is pesto - it is a simple and delicious meal. Pesto is great this time of year. Right now on Long Island everyone's basil and parsley plants are huge. Then the kids help make some cookies for dessert and along with their homemade cards - it is a great afternoon that will make Grandparents feel terrific!

Pesto Recipe

* 2 cups loosely packed basil leaves, no stems, washed and dried

* Small handful parsley leaves

* 2 cloves chopped garlic

* 2 tablespoons pine nuts (optional because they are expensive)

* 1/4 cup olive oil

* 1/2 cup freshly grated Parmigiano-Reggiano cheese

Combine basil, parsley, garlic, pine nuts and 1/4 cup olive oil in food processor. Pulse and add more oil if mixture seems dry. Add grated cheese and mix with freshly cook pasta. Makes about 1 cup of pasta.

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Who's Your Teacher?

Breaking news from Bayport. If you have been hunting your mailperson down this week to find out what teacher your child has - wait no more. The school district's mail machine is broken, so there will be no letters sent out. Just call your school and the main office will tell you the teacher and what room number to report to next week.

Monday, August 31, 2009

Bayport Blue Point Library in the future


The Bayport-Blue Point Library is zooming into the future. It may be good and may be bad. For their children's programs registration is on September 12th at 10am, but instead of parents lining up outside of the library at 9am to get into a class - it is going to be done on-line from the comfort of your home.

Each child that you are registering must have their own library card to get into the classes. You cannot register them under your own card. This creates the problem of - what if you are registering two or more children? Who do you want to get the first choice of classes? But I guess everyone else registering is in the same boat. Also with all these people registering at the same time is the system going to crash?

At the library, in the children's department, there are instructions you can pick up on how to register for the children's classes. There are 13 steps to register - too much to list here, but here's a start. Go to the library homepage. On the left side click onto Children's Programs and select the classes you want. Hopefully it is easy to do.

This little inconvenience is well worth getting all these programs for your children at no cost. It is a waste not to take advantage of the Bayport-Blue Point Library. Get your children a library card today, go on-line and set up their password, so you can register for classes on the morning of September 12th.

One other note - the Bayport-Blue Point Library is starting to issue in October photo id library cards with a key chain option. This will be a good thing because your library card will be on your key chain.

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

The Bubble Is In The Battle On The Bay

Power boaters with families, this weekend in Patchogue is The Battle On The Bay Miss Geico Triple Crown. It is a huge boat race on The Bay just off Patchogue and it's free. The events start on Friday, August 21st on land in Patchogue. There is music, food, vendors and you can view the race boats. On Saturday there are the time trials in the water and more fun on land. Sunday is race day. There are three separate races, starting at noon.

There is a viewing area in the Sandspits of Shorefront Park in Patchogue. If you have a boat, there is a viewing area just off Shorefront Park in Patchogue in The Bay. It is sort of tailgating with your boat in the water! Check out more detailed info at The Battle of The Bay website http://greatsouthbayracing.com/index.html

Even if you do not make it to the races - living in The Bayport Bubble - you will hear the boats!
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Don't Buy Birthday Cards - Make Them!

Once your children start school, they are always getting invited to birthday parties. It's not a big deal to buy a gift, but buying all those birthday cards gets so expensive. Mostly because they just get thrown away.

Try this - get some construction paper or pull some paper out of your printer. With crayons or markers, have them make a birthday card for their pal.
Let their imagination flow - you will be amazed at what they draw for their friend. Keep it simple or get really fancy with glue, cutouts and stickers.

Always make a note on the card of what the drawing is and have them sign their name too. The kids feel like they made something special for a buddy and you save money. If the card does get tossed in the trash, it will not be a waste of $3. Who knows, maybe the friend will keep the special card and bring it out again in high school for a laugh!
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Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Free By The Sea

The National Park Service has free Seaside Stories and Crafts at Talisman on Fire Island. I plan on doing it with my kids, since most Saturdays we are at Talisman anyway. You meet at Talisman Picnic Area at 2pm and it is geared for children ages 5-7, but all are welcome. They also hold free kid events at Watch Hill too. Call 631-687-4750 or check it out at http://www.nps.gov/fiis/upload/FireIslandNationalSeashore_SpecialProgramsThisMonth_August-2009.pdf

* August 8th Whale Day - listen to stories about the seashore and learn about the environment of Fire Island
* August 22nd Catch of the Day - discover marine life in The Great South Bay as you use seine nets and dip nets. You must wear water shoes.

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Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Scream For Your Own Ice Cream

I got this recipe from a library class for making fast and fun vanilla ice cream with the kids. You will amaze them!

1 tablespoon of sugar
1/2 cup of milk
1/4 teaspoon of vanilla
6 tablespoons of salt
1 pint size zip plastic bag
1 gallon size zip plastic bag
ice

Fill the large bag half full of ice. Add the salt and seal the bag. In the small bag put milk, vanilla and sugar. Seal this bag and put inside large bag and seal it too. Shake bags until mixture is ice cream - about 5 minutes. Wipe off top of small bag really good and then open. You will have enough ice cream for a small bowl.

Just make sure you really clean off the small bag - if you don't your ice cream may be a bit salty, but still good. Make some now - you know you have all the ingredients! =)

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Volcano In The Backyard

Something to do with the kids! We got a book about volcanoes out from the library and in the back there was instructions on making your own volcano. You may remember this from when you were little, but it is so fun to do again and so simple.

Do it outside. It really does not make a big mess and does not stain clothing. We used plastic water bottles cut in half and the kids put clay on the sides to make their volcano. You do not have to get that fancy - any container will do.

Fill the container with some water. I forgot the measurements, but it really does not matter because the kids will just kept pouring it in. Add some baking soda then pour in white vinegar. When the vinegar goes in, your volcano will bubble and foam and overflow. The kids love it!

When it dies down and just kept adding more white vinegar and baking soda to make more bubbles. This combination is also a great cleaning solution and so cheap to buy. I now have the cleanest outside table in the Bayport Bubble! Any white residue just cleans up with water. It was a nice project that kept them busy for a few hours. Try it!
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A Lumpy Crab On The Bay

JT's on The Bay on Corey Creek Canal in Blue Point is yummy! We went on a Friday night at 7pm and were seated right away - there was only two of us. Guess we hit it right. The atmosphere is excellent! There is a huge outside deck with tons of seating. You can look at The Bay or the canal and the boats going by. This is what Long Island in the summer is all about. The food is pretty good. We had the crispy fried calamari with cherry pepper rings for an appetizer. It was a total rip off of Harbor Crab's fried calamari, but it was good. For dinner I ate broiled stuffed shrimp with lump crab stuffing and sherry lobster sauce $23. This was really good and it was real crab meat - no imitation stuff here. Delicious! And I would recommend JT's watermelon margarita on the rocks to everyone - excellent! Good meal, great drinks, terrific atmosphere! And I believe they have transient docking. http://www.jtsonthebay.com/dinner.html
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Sunday, July 26, 2009

A Library Card And A Stamp On The Ocean

Did you ever notice the Post Office at Davis Park? I know you have walked by it. It is a little building across the boardwalk from the firehouse. In all the years I have been going to Davis Park, Fire Island - I never went there either.

The kids and I brought some post cards at The Davis Park Store and went off to the Post Office to mail them. It is a very small building, but there is a regular mini Post Office in it. And half of the Post Office is shared with The Davis Park Library.

There is the Post Office clerk in her uniform standing next to the librarian. It is sort of funny and it gives you an old time feeling. We purchased post card stamps for our cards and mailed them off. Then we signed two kids books out of the library. When you are done with the books you can return them in mailbox in front of the Post Office.

The next time you are at Davis Park stop in The Post Office - Library, it's fun!
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Schooling In The Home

The lady who lived in our house before us home schooled four children, so we get lots of home schooling catalogs. I actually looked at one the other day and place an order today. It is called Trend for Kids - PreK to Grade 9.

They have all sort of fun and interesting things to help your kids learn. I ordered a bunch of sight word flash cards, addition cards and some charts on the world and rain. My kids are very interested in maps and ask me all the time where rain comes from. My total for seven items with shipping was $25 - a bargain. I have gone to the "teacher store" and purchased similar items and paid much more. The flash cards were $2.99 for over 100 cards at Trends for Kids.

Here's the site - http://www.trendenterprises.com/home.cfm

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Saturday, July 25, 2009

Getting Sleepy In The Library

The Bayport-Blue Point Library has bedtime storytimes. I have done this for the past few summers with my kids and they love it. It really does not make them sleepy, but it is something to do that is fun and they get to see their friends.

There are only two bedtime storytimes left. Friday August 14th and 21st at 7pm. It is recommended for children between 2-6 years old. Bring your favorite stuffed animal - pajamas are optional. =)
suffolk.lib.ny.us/libraries/bprt

Reading The Summer Away

Did you sign your kids up for The Bayport-Blue Point Library Summer Reading Club yet? There is still time. My children have been a part of the reading club since they were a year old. Yes - one years old! They did not read then, but you read books to them. There are different levels for age groups. Once you have read six books, you bring your list back to the library and you get a prize. At the end of the reading club in mid-August, there is a big party. My kids have tons of fun at this party. There is all the usual kid stuff that they love - games, music, bouncers, etc. The best part - it's all free. I don't know why more people don't take advantage of the library. =)
suffolk.lib.ny.us/libraries/bprt

Fresh Air And Movies

This info was in Newsday last month and I cut it out, but have not gone yet. The Brookhaven Amphitheater at Bald Hill in Farmingville shows movies outside on their lawn on Wednesday nights. It costs $5 per carload. The movies are popular kid's movies that were all out in the past year - like "Kung Fu Panda" and "Hotel For Dogs". I would imagine that you bring a blanket, snacks and bug spray. The movies start at 8:15pm - once it gets dark. In the next few weeks, I am going to try to take the kids there. Here is the web address to check out the schedule. =)
http://brookhavenamphitheater.com/movie_sched_.html

Spelling Errors With Craig

Have you ever looked for a job on Craig's List? There are some interesting one, like you could be a beer pong referee! I have been looking for work on Craig's List - not as a referee. Just be careful because I am finding out that there are a lot of "scam" job out there. Most you can tell right away - like "we are looking for 20 qualified people" - to do what - who knows? But others look real and when I email them, they respond and you can tell it is something that I don't want to do.

Yesterday I got an email back from an ad. It was for a freelance writer, to write articles for blogs (which I have been doing for the past two years - if anyone wants to hire me?). In this email telling me about the job there were so many misspellings, that I just had to laugh. I did not reply back to it.

Friday, July 24, 2009

Lions, Tigers And Bears - And Eagles And Goats!

I always forget about The Brookhaven Ecology Site in Holtsville. It is a great place to bring the kids - all year long and it is free!!! There is a big playground, an exercise track where kids can ride their bikes and roller blades.

The best part
is the animal preserve. It is the place to go - the kids will be amazed! They have the usual - goats, horses and pigs. Then there are animals that have been rescued and are now living there - bears, eagles and a lion.

The Ecology Site also has picnic tables and greenhouses. There is no charge for any of this. They have a pool, but I am not sure if there is a charge for it because I have never used it. If you kids are driving you crazy in the summer or winter - take them to The Brookhaven Ecology Site for a fun day!

http://www.brookhaven.org/HighwayDepartment/WildlifeEcologyCenter/tabid/113/Default.aspx

249 Buckley Road, Holtsville 631-758-9664

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

It's Snowing Religious Education

It's time to register for religion education classes at Our Lady Of The Snow Church in Blue Point. Your children can be as young at 3 years old to start Sunday School. My kids did Sunday School last year and loved it. It is held during the 9am Sunday Mass in The Little Church's basement. There is a great teacher and she has tons of help from teens making their Confirmation. They play games, sing songs, do crafts and have lots of fun. After Kindergarten, the formal education begins. The cost is $75 for one child, $100 for two and $110 for three or more. Call to register today 631-363-6394
http://www.ourladyofthesnowbluepoint.e-paluch.com/

Free Common Ground

I have never been, but just picked up a brochure for The Common Ground - a park between Gillette and Candee Avenues in Sayville. They hold all sorts of free events in the summer. I am going to check out the ones for kids - so come back and find out how it went.

This Friday is Darlene Graham Song and Dance at 6:30pm. I am not going to that because my daughter hates music and hates dancing. But going to check it out on August 7th for a puppet show. Just something to do. Here's the site http://thecommonground.com/familyfridays2009.html

Bayport Safety Group

Below is some interesting information from The Bayport Safety Group ~

The Bayport Safety Committee on June 16th held a well publicized, highly attended, robust community forum on traffic safety issues at the Academy Street Elementary School. The Committee also surveyed hundreds of Bayport residents on the quality of life issues related to vehicular speeding and reckless driving that affect our neighborhood. All viewpoints and related actual experiences on the topic were encouraged to be expressed. No opinions were neglected, it was an interesting evening.

The main focus of our concern has to deal with the historic heart of our community, Middle Road. This beautiful collection of 19th and early 20th century houses should be made into a "National Historic Registry District". It must not continue to be despoiled by the out of control vehicular speeding problem. The 30 m.p.h. posted speed limit is adhered to by less than 10% of the motorists who traverse this road, many of whom are our neighbors. Speeds of 50 to 65 m.p.h. are the norm. If a pedestrian is struck by a car doing 30 m.p.h., that individuals statistical chance of survival is 20%. Lower that to zero if the vehicle is a high-front van, SUV or landscaping truck. Thus safety for our families, friends and pets is our paramount issue. This is a topic on which there can be no logical disagreement. Where the trouble occurs is how to address the speeding problem--stoplights, stop signs, speed bumps, chicanes, rumble strips, police speed traps, better engineering or just good old fashioned responsible driving? That is the problem we face. We have analyzed our survey data, listened to forum participants and are now prepared to offer some remedies.

We are not traffic engineers or behavioral psychologists. Our proposal is not infallible, but reflects a prevailing majority respondent input. We are solely "concerned neighbors" who want to see a "common sense" solution to this traffic issue that will benefit all our residents. What once was a pleasant, bucolic, winding road has become at times a fearful, dangerous annoyance for responsible drivers and pedestrians. Excessive speeding, tailgating and illegal passing have become the norm not the exception on this stretch of road. It has become the "A-27-A By-Pass" for those wishing to avoid the traffic lights and congestion on Montauk Highway. The problems have been exacerbated by the increased traffic volume and lack of speed impediments on this 2-1/2 mile Middle Road/Gillette Avenue to Montauk Highway route.

Traffic calming encompasses what are called the 4 E's--Engineering, Enforcement, Education and Encouragement. Working off these categories we would like to offer our "street smart" recommendations for action:

ENGINEERING
Starting on the west end of Bayport by "Meadow Croft" and the "Loughlin Vineyard":

** Many people recreationally fish, bike, jog or walk on this natural stretch. Some type of engineered speed impediment should be incorporated into the roadbed by Brown's River to discourage vehicles from going over 30 m.p.h., thereby protecting these individuals.

** Following this open stretch there should be an attractive "Welcome to Historic Bayport" carved wood sign with "Speed limit strictly enforced" engraved underneath. An identical sign should be placed on Middle Road just east of Gillette Avenue.

** The next section of Middle Road from the first houses at Baywood Lane/Crestview Drive to Suydam Lane needs mitigation to slow the flow--this is a problem--McConnell Avenue is the most logical place for a stop sign, it is a dangerous curve, however the street does not align well for signage. Our committee could not agree on another stop sign location.

** All our other stop sign proposed placements correspond with pedestrian crosswalks at busy, important neighborhood locations. Edgewater Avenue--a 3 way stop sign (Bayport Commons and a school crossing), Snedecor Avenue--a 4 way stop sign (Methodist Church, Tiny Tots Nursery and a school crossing), Bayport Avenue--a 3 way stop sign and overhead red flasher (old downtown, and dangerous curve), Gillette Avenue--a 4 way stop sign and overhead red flasher (important recreational crossing and dangerous curve).

** We feel the sidewalk gaps on the south side of Middle Road need to be remedied. This is a "pedestrian" school district without busing. Unfortunately these gaps make foot or bike transit dangerous for our children, a situation that even in this tough fiscal climate needs to be addressed. The existing contiguous sidewalks on the north side of Middle Road also need routine maintenance (i.e. pruning and crack repair). Our pedestrian crosswalks need clear delineation with more durable paint, not decals and where appropriate "right of way" road cones.

** Trying to make a turn on Montauk Highway is a motorist nightmare. We feel the south turn signal at Gillette Avenue serves a very beneficial purpose. We would additionally add one east bound at the same location so drivers could turn north onto Gillette with ease and confidence. At Montauk Highway and Bayport Avenue we would add both north and south turn light signals. At Snedecor Avenue a south turn light should be installed eastbound. The same signal should be placed at McConnell Avenue. These additional turning lights would diffuse the traffic that now gravitates to the southbound Gillette Avenue signal for safety reasons. These measures would lessen the traffic burden on both Gillette and Middle Road.

** The Town of Islip program that planted 58 new trees curbside on Bayport Avenue should be expanded to as many other streets as is fiscally possible. Visually they help slow traffic.

ENFORCEMENT
** We cannot expect to always have police on demand when conditions cry out. The proposed stop signs would reduce the need for speed patrols. However, the reckless drivers who disobey our school crossing guards while also running stop signs and speeding still need to be ticketed. We would ask for police resources to be deployed during the school year from 7:15 to 9:00 a.m. and 2:15 to 6:30 p.m. Some people need $100 speeding tickets and penalty points on their licenses to get the message.

** Increased DWI patrol on weekend nights.

** One of the biggest speed culprits is the S-40 Bus that uses Blue Point Avenue and Middle Road as an "alternate route". Ridership on this diverted route leg appears to be minimal. It should be kept solely up on Montauk Highway instead of our narrow residential roads.

EDUCATION
** Our teen-age students are the next generation of motorists. Offer a mandatory driver education program at the High School, as well as a refresher defensive driver course for older folks.

ENCOURAGEMENT
** Develop a public safety program for our schools as well as residents. This is a wonderful area we are fortunate enough to reside in, why not a campaign touting "Drive at 25" and enjoy the scenery. Life is short enough--this is often forgotten when speeding to a child sports event or stressful job. There is something to be said for the slogan--"Stop and smell the roses".

CONCLUSION
The Bayport Safety Committee has been formed to make the community aware that there is a serious quality of life problem that taints our enjoyment of the wonderful benefits of living here--traffic anarchy. Many neighbors through the years have perished in horrible accidents. It is not "if" there will be another tragic case of a poor resident being killed or maimed but "when". It could be a member of your family, a close friend or a neighbor on the next block. We have the power to fight this inevitability. The "status quo" is not acceptable. No more road mayhem, let's slow things down.

NOW IS THE TIME TO ACT------NOT ANOTHER 20 OR THIRTY YEARS FROM TODAY!

Bayport Safety will walk the streets this summer to enlist more support. We welcome all the help we can garner. We will petition our present as well as potential future political leaders to help achieve our goals. Come September we will hold a second community forum and possibly a fundraiser. We already have promised donations for our "Welcome to Historic Bayport" sign proposal as well as the "public awareness" campaign. We have struck a responsive chord amongst the citizenry. We are also exploring the possibility of turning the responsibility for Middle Road from the County to the Town of Islip. It is easier to fix a neighborhood problem at the grass-root level. The responsiveness of the individuals sitting as well as aspiring to be members of the Islip Town Council at our forum was heartening. We look forward to a better, safer future.

Submitted by the: BAYPORT SAFETY COMMITTEE--contact us at bayportsafety@optonline.net

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Yogitini With Young Jacque

Young Jacque - someone I know in The Bayport Bubble is in New York City right now in an intensive four week training program to become a certified Yoga instructor. She comes home on the weekends and practices on us. I have never done Yoga before and for three days after doing it - my core was sore - a good sore. And now I am hooked! My daughter even started - see her in the pic! After Young Jacque graduates hopefully I'll be doing blogs on where she will hold classes. Namaste!

Back To School On July 3rd?

This is just a big pet peeve of mine. On July 3rd - less then a week from the last day of school I got an email from Costco for Back to School coupons. All I can say is AHHHHHH!!!! The Costco email was the first of many more Back to School ads, etc. Why can't they wait till August to start that stuff?

The Oar And The Lobster Quesadilla


Went to The Oat on Patchouge River last weekend for the Bayport Causal Reunion. After hanging with some old friends we went inside and had some appetizers and I just have to blog about one of them - the lobster quessadilla. It is an appetizers on their dinner menu and it is beyond good. It is real lobster meat and real guacamole on the side. Just delicious! It is hard to find a place that uses actually lobster meat! It is on the pricey side - $16, but it enough for two people. Even if you just go there - have a few drinks and order the lobster quessadilla. Yummy!

I just checked out their web site - TheOar.Com and I signed up for their mailing list. Maybe I'll get a coupon for the lobster quessadilla! =)

Monday, July 13, 2009

Ice Cream Is On Sale!

In today's Newsday there is a King Kullen coupon for Breyers Ice Cream half gallon $1.49 valid 7-14-09 to 7-16-09. You have to spend an additional $25. What a deal in The Bayport Bubble. =)